"how do you define a word without concrete meaning? to each his own, the saying goes. so why push to attain an ideal state of being that no two random people will agree is where you want to be? faultless. finished. incomparable. people can never be these. and anyway, when did creating a flawless facade become a more vital goal than learning to love the person who lives inside your skin? the outside belongs to others. only you should decide for you what is perfect."